I’ll admit it — I was skeptical.
As a 49-year-old entrepreneur, I’m used to handling challenges myself. I’ve built my career from the ground up, lead a busy team, and spend my days making decisions that impact dozens of people. But when it came to my personal life, I realized I wasn’t getting the results I wanted.
Between long work hours, business travel, and my general dislike of dating apps, I had quietly given up on the idea that I could find someone truly compatible. The women I met through friends or online were great, but rarely on the same wavelength. I wanted someone who shared my ambition, my sense of humor, and my desire for something real — not just another string of “almost” connections.
That’s when I found Invitation Only Matchmaking.
Meeting Angela
I came across Angela’s company after searching online for “professional matchmaking” in Southern Oregon. I reviewed her website, and I was instrigued. Something about her approach — personal, selective, and intuitive — stood out to me. This wasn’t some app or algorithm. It was human.
When I met Angela for the first time, I was immediately struck by how easy she was to talk to. She asked thoughtful questions — not just about what I wanted in a partner, but about my life, my values, and what happiness looked like for me long-term.
She wasn’t there to sell me a service; she was there to understand me.
The Process
Once we began, I was impressed by how structured yet personal everything felt. Angela’s team handled everything — from introductions to scheduling to pre-date check-ins.
I was matched with a few incredible women, each one more aligned than the last. What stood out most was how intentional it all was — no random swiping, no endless texting. Every introduction was meaningful, and I actually looked forward to each date.
Then came her.
The Match That Changed Everything
Angela introduced me to Lauren — a 45-year-old RN who, like me, had a demanding career but an equally strong desire to find something lasting.
From our first conversation, things felt different. There was a natural connection — easy conversation, shared humor, mutual respect. We both left that first dinner feeling like something special had begun.
Six months later, it’s hard to believe how much life has changed. We’ve met each other’s families, taken trips together, and she recently moved in with me. I can genuinely say I’ve found my partner — someone who brings balance, laughter, and peace to my very busy life.
Looking Back
Hiring a matchmaker felt like an indulgence at first — something “other people” did. But now, I see it differently. It wasn’t an indulgence; it was an investment in myself and my future.
Angela and her team gave me back something I didn’t realize I’d lost: hope. They reminded me that love isn’t about luck — it’s about intention, effort, and the right guidance.
For any professional who feels like they’ve tried everything and still haven’t found the right person, I can’t recommend Invitation Only Matchmaking enough. It’s not about outsourcing love — it’s about partnering with someone who knows how to help you find it.
Thank you, Angela — for reintroducing me to what real connection feels like.
By David N., Invitation Only Matchmaking Client